time:2023-03-07 source:sznbone Views:
Giving gifts is actually a very headache. If it is a girl to send girls, because I know what girls like and lack, so it is easier to send it. But if a boy is sent to a girl, it is a bit difficult for a long time. Why do you say that? First of all, because the aesthetics of the two parties are different, for example, some straight men must not understand what girls like, necklaces are very common gifts, but the necklace is actually a deep meaning. Know together.
The meaning of the necklace can be traced back to the primitive society. During the patriarchal clan, men were the core of society and dominated, and women were only affiliated. After the war between the clan and the tribe, after the victory and defeat, the defeated clan or tribe women will be captured to the victory side. In order to prevent these women from escaping, the clan or tribes they defeated will bundle their necks, hands and feet with ropes or chains. Later, some places followed this ancient tradition. When the men and women married, the man would "grab" the woman in his home and put metal ornaments on the woman's neck and hand to express the meaning of "restraint". The development of ancient customs has evolved into the habit of boys to send girl necklaces. Therefore, the meaning of the earliest necklace in history is "restraint".
Now, the meaning of "restraint" of the necklace has been eliminated, and people give it more and more romantic significance. The meaning of the first necklace mainly takes the homophonic sound, expressing the "love"; the second meaning continues the tradition, and the "restraint" is "binding" into "holding", turning the brutal act of the woman into a vein pull Leave, want to tie each other's heart, and do not want the other person to be taken away by others. The third meaning is the extension of the first two, expressing the hope of hoping to stay with each other's life.